5 things to do in your 20.

I've read a lot about things that girls should do while on their twenties and here I have the 5 things I think every twenty something year old girl should do. You can either hate them or love them, they might not be things that everyone would do but I've already done it and trust me, they've made me learn and grow up like nothing else. 

1. Fall in love and out of it. 

Falling in love is the best feeling to be felt and it makes you see and do things you can never imagine, and obviously when you're 21 years old and find the guy you think is perfect then falling in love is just the next logical step and that part of what you should do. The second part of this action is not for everyone, maybe you find the one in your twenties and you don't need to fall out of love, but for those who didn't, for those who fell in love with a guy that doesn't stop flirting with other girls, that makes you feel insecure, that would do things he wants even if he knows you are going to be in a bad place because of it... all of you, need to fall out of love as soon as possible. 

Yes, I know is not an easy thing but, if you start thinking of yourself as the only thing that matters, then the feeling becomes a blur and it fades a away. Once you don't feel a thing about that guy that was so bad for you, a new streight comes into your body and the next time you feel like falling in love, you will know better.

2. Procrastinating.

This is not  a good advice but you won't be able to do it later. So just for the pleasure of doing nothing go find a romantic movie, ice cream and do nothing. This age is full with university stuff and big decisions that will change your life so if you get five minutes of rest, then take them.

3. Take College/University seriously.

This might seem obvious but trusth me, it is not. When I started University I was in a state of mind where basically I acted like I knew everything just to be accepted or have a lot of new friends, yes maybe popularity was fun but at the end of the day it was just me and a bunch of assignments that I didn't quite understood because I was too busy chating instead of paying attention. Trusth me, is not fun at all.

A couple of semesters after, I realized that I was the only one that could help me and if I wanted to actually have a degree I would have to work hard and learn on my own. Now I'm doing so much better and things are going pretty good but I still regret those first semesters when I was just playing popularity queen,

4.  Find something you're truly pasionate about.

Your 20's are the perfect time to make mistakes and learn from them, to try things and decide if you like them or not. This is the time to find out if you love playing guitar or writing or swiming or knitting. What ever you do, do it seriously and really try, it's the only way to be sure if you love it or hate it.

5. Talk to your parents. 

Now, your parents are not your favourite people while growing up but they know stuff, valuable stuff about life and choices than we could use. Ask them, tell them, listen to them. They can be very helpful and no one while ever listen as well as they do. Problems can de solved so much easier when you have a parental advice.